The State of My Mind

The state of our nation no longer allows me [or you for that matter] to stand on the sidelines. We can't be "half-assed" in understanding what is happening around us. And, after some research prompted by my own curiosity and desire to "know more," I must say, my entire belief system is no longer set in stone and I am questioning everything. Every. Fucking. Thing.

Life Unpacked

Three weeks ago, we loaded up a much-too-small Uhaul, three vehicles, 2 kids and a cat for a 500-mile trek across three states. We took 2 days to make the trip, stopping to have a good dinner and sleep in a nice hotel for the night, letting the kids burn some energy in the pool … Continue reading Life Unpacked

This is Me

The lasting effects of domestic violence and abuse are not always black and white. As I'm learning to accept the harshness that was my reality, better understand the ways in which the abuse I endured have shaped the person I am, and am growing into the person I was meant to be - I'm realizing that this struggle is long, hard, and lonely. That the world - society - pushes against survivors as we strive to take our lives and freedoms back. We are brushed under the rug and, as I have recently experienced, not always seen or heard when we should be. Law does not protect us, or assist us in protecting our children. And many of the people we look to for support turn their heads the other way